Servitude and Obedience in the BDSM World
- Goddess Maggie
- Feb 6
- 5 min read
Understanding the Importance of Safe Practices
Servitude and obedience in the BDSM world. In a Bondasage®, Elysium®, Servitude, or an Obedience session is about building trust and confidence. When my clients feel safe, they are more likely to return and recommend the service.
Some key reasons why safety matters:
Preventing injuries and health risks: Proper hygiene, equipment maintenance, and technique reduce the chance of harm. You must come already showered. However, if you would like to add shower worship to your session, you will need to book 2.5 hours. The shower worship will occur at the beginning of the session, before I lead you to my table and strap you down!
Improving client comfort: A secure environment allows my clients to unwind and appreciate the service.
Safeguarding the service provider: Steering clear of unsafe situations ensures my physical and emotional well-being. There is a reason you need to be ready to verify your ID.
By emphasizing safety, all the services I provide on this site foster a professional atmosphere that benefits us both.
Servitude and obedience in the BDSM world. Key Safe Practices to Implement
Implementing safe services such as the Bondassage®, Elysium®, Servitude, and Obedience I offer in the BDSM realm involves several practical steps. Such as:
Preparation
Arrive already showered and shaved
Place the remaining balance on the table before the service starts
Arrive with respect and a willingness to comply. This could mean doing some yoga, meditating for at least 10 minutes, or taking a light walk outside to enjoy the fresh air.
Communication
Share your health conditions with me: Before we begin, it's essential to inform me of any allergies, skin sensitivities, or medical conditions that might impact the service. It's safer for me to be aware. Don't make assumptions.
Provide clear explanations: I will outline how you should behave and what to expect during your obedience and servitude session to help ease any anxiety.
Ensure consent: Always provide explicit permission before I perform any servitude and obedience service. Consent is crucial in any BDSM work.
Hygiene
Disinfect tools and surfaces: I use approved disinfectants to clean all equipment between clients.
Maintain hand hygiene: Wash hands thoroughly before and after each session.
Utilize disposable items when possible: I use items such as towels, gloves, and applicators only once to prevent cross-contamination. Those who have visited have seen me remove sheets from the table or gather dirty items and bundle them in the sheet, which is then taken to my laundry area.
Creating a Safe and Comfortable Environment
The physical environment plays a crucial role. A well-designed space can prevent accidents and promote relaxation. For anyone who has visited me, they know what my place looks like. It's clean and tidy. I am an organized person. There is absolutely nothing cramped about my space.
Lighting
Ventilation
Temperature control: In the cold months, I use a space heater to keep the business space nice and cozy.
Privacy: I have a large, wide window that I let sunlight in. But before the session starts, I draw the blinds and curtains to provide my clients with a sense of security and dignity.
The physical environment plays a crucial role. A well-designed space can prevent accidents and promote relaxation. For anyone who has visited me, they know what my place looks like. It's clean and tidy. I am an organized person. There is absolutely nothing cramped about my space.
Lighting
Ventilation
Temperature control: In the cold months, I use a space heater to keep the business space nice and cozy.
Privacy: I have a large, wide window that lets sunlight in. But before the session starts, I draw the blinds and curtains to provide my clients with a sense of security and dignity.
What a session of servitude and obedience in the BDSM world may look like.
In-House: If I need house jobs performed, such as cleaning bathrooms, installing new window blinds, crawling on the floor, kissing my feet, and doing dishes. Or how about cutting my grass in the summertime? I had a sub happily do that. Made him sweat his ass off! I'll have you groveling at my feet, not allowing you to kiss them until you obey anything else I have you do. When you fail, punishment can come in many forms.
At your place: I have a monthly texting program for those who want to be dominated between in-house sessions, and/or a service on its own if travel gets in the way of visiting in person. The cost for that is currently $500 per month. It includes 2 texts per day, 6 days a week. My last sub was bad and emailed me saying, "You can send me as many texts as you want." LOL. THAT IS NOT OBEDIENT BEHAVIOR OF A TRUE SUB!! That is disrespectful and a clear sign that he didn't know how to be obedient.
This sub—an ex-sub, of course—this was his form of wanting to control the situation. He acted like a Domme in that instant, not a Sub. Let's be clear, I am the Domme, not the client who wants to be dominated. Trust me, he was punished financially. He paid it. However, within only two weeks of this program, he failed again... and then again. There is a certain protocol I have set in place. One of those things is that I determine what your punishment will be. His consequence was a financial consequence on our agreed-upon terms. When he failed to pay, I simply ceased servicing him.
If a sub fails to face the consequences, any service he/she was receiving ceases. Period. Do not test me. You will fail.
Other ideas for in-house Servitude and Obedience services: Once you have decided you'd like this type of service, the first step is filling out the application form that I have specifically curated for that. Answering the questions in it, along with talking to you (for a fee), will help me curate sessions. I would then provide you with 3 or 4 options you can choose from, or all of them, giving you the basics of what is entailed.
Whatever you choose outside of the monthly texting program, the pricing is based on several factors that will be discussed in our phone call. There is a minimum fee of at least $250 for up to 45 minutes for this discussion. I will not waste my time with anyone who is not willing to compensate me for my time. This is a business, and oftentimes a practitioner's livelihood. Karma is real. Be a good boy or girl.
We will discuss both my hard nos and your hard nos in our phone call.
Warmly,
Priestess Goddess Maggie
Delaware USA
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