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- Phrases to Avoid
Jumbled letters The following words to avoid that will help you when speaking to others as it comes to your life: personally and professionally. This goes for both sexes. I'll try....... I hope........ It's just that........ But, I......... Well, I......... The above phrases to avoid keep you in failure mode. It keeps you in fear mode. It keeps you from making decisions that you need to make in order to move forward. Yes, there is truth in what Yoda said. "There is no try. There is only do." We don't try on clothes. We put on clothes. We don't try to eat. We do eat. We don't try to walk. We walk. We don't try to make our bed. We are either making it or not making it. We are always either doing something or not doing something. The above phrases also prevent us from doing the right thing. The right thing that is best for our own health. Let's look at the word well-being. Well as in wellness. Are you well in mind? Are you well in your body? Are you well in your soul? All of us should take time for self-reflection with what we are thinking, doing, and not doing, etc. It is often in the not doing where we go wrong. That we mess up relationships. How we are take care or ourselves, is a reflection of how we treat others. Look, I know we all have a past, and our own traumas that we've experienced in life. Every single human on this earth has suffered through trauma, and more than likely several forms of trauma the more that we live this thing we call life. It's not something that we should be ignoring. Some people I have noticed do seem to ignore and out right lie to themselves when they say they have never suffered trauma. Trauma is not just the physical and/or sexual abuse. An interesting but not interesting is that 99% of the time it's always something in childhood. Whether it was real or unreal, how we perceive things as a child in the family that we were raised in. If you follow me or pay any attention to me, you will have noticed that I do tend to focus on communication, on trauma, and relationships. I mean that is what bodywork can help with, whether someone wants to admit that or not. Touch is healing. Touch is love. Touch is light. Way too many of us have suffered trauma through touch. Whether it was by hand, or by an instrument, or weapon. Back in the day a lot of us received the belt from our father. I am no exception to that. That is how we were disciplined. Did it work? I doubt it. Because whether or not we think it did work, I have heard some men say that it stopped them from being a 'bad boy'. Nonetheless, it does create trauma inside the body, and will come out later within the teenage years, and end up even into adult years within the relationships that we build. It really fucking sucks that the traumas that we've experienced in life do affect the relationships that we have in the here and now. And I'm sorry to say, but no one is ever 100% healed. Because memories are memories. It doesn't mean necessarily that someone is purposefully holding onto those memories. It just means that the memories are there. And sometimes they do come forward. The more that we heal from them, the less the triggers happen. Nonetheless, life is life and there are times they will still pop up. Bodywork is a way that we can help ourselves get back in touch with our own body, therefore create some relief from the stress of everything that is going on in our life. And yes, sometimes those things are from childhood trauma. Respectfully, Goddess Maggie
- 10 Ways to Prove Yourself a Respectful and Professional Client in the Tantra World
In a society that often rushes through interactions, respectful communication stands out, particularly in the intimate realm of sensual massage and tantra. Many individuals overlook how their demeanor can influence these special experiences. A strong foundation of respect and professionalism benefits both the practitioner and the client. This post outlines ten practical ways you can demonstrate respect and professionalism as a client in this unique field. 1. Understand the Business Before reaching out to a practitioner, spend some time researching their services. Look into what specific treatments they offer and familiarizing yourself with their policies. Around 75% of misunderstandings can be avoided with a little background knowledge. For instance, knowing that a practitioner has a specific focus on aromatherapy or a no-touch policy can streamline your communication and set clear expectations. 2. Provide Complete Information When you first contact a practitioner, include all vital details: your full name, the date and time you want the appointment, and any specifics about your needs. Clients who provide complete information help reduce the back-and-forth communication that can take up valuable time. A concise initial message can often eliminate two or three emails that would otherwise be necessary. 3. Be Prepared to Prove Your Identity Many practitioners request proof of identity to safeguard both parties. Keep a valid form of identification on hand, such as a driver's license or passport. About 60% of practitioners stated they feel more at ease working with clients who are prepared to show identification. This simple act establishes a sense of trust right from the start. 4. Send a Deposit Deposits are standard in the sensual massage and tantra industry. By sending a deposit, you protect the practitioner’s time and demonstrate your seriousness about the appointment. This is especially important since practitioners often reserve time blocks specifically for you. A deposit might be 50% of the service cost, which not only secures your appointment but also serves as a commitment on your part. 5. Communicate Professionally When scheduling your appointment, use respectful and clear language. Ditch casual phrases like “hey,” and instead, use straightforward greetings such as “Hello” or “Good morning.” A professional tone fosters respect and sets a positive atmosphere for future interactions. Practitioners often note that clients who maintain professionalism are more likely to receive personalized services. 6. Respect Boundaries and Policies Each practitioner has their unique set of boundaries and policies that must be honored. Take time to learn these guidelines before your appointment. If a practitioner has a policy against last-minute bookings, respecting that rule is crucial. According to surveys, 80% of practitioners feel more comfortable when clients honor their boundaries, creating a safer environment for both parties. 7. Confirm Your Appointment Committing to confirm your appointment, ideally a day in advance, shows your responsibility. This simple courtesy signifies to the practitioner that you value their time, which can strengthen your relationship. Many practitioners report feeling greater satisfaction when clients take this extra step. 8. Arrive on Time Being punctual is a key aspect of respect. Arriving on schedule shows that you value the practitioner’s time just as much as your own. According to industry standards, late arrivals can disrupt a practitioner’s entire schedule, potentially affecting other clients. If you are delayed, send a quick message to communicate your situation. This small gesture demonstrates courtesy and consideration. A tranquil massage room featuring soft lighting and soothing colors. 9. Be Open and Honest Transparent communication about your preferences or needs enhances the session’s quality. Many practitioners have shared that understanding clients' expectations before the session begins significantly improves the experience. You might say, “I prefer a lighter touch,” or “I have certain areas that need focus.” Being honest allows the practitioner to tailor the service precisely to your needs. 10. Leave Honest Feedback After the appointment, consider sharing your feedback with the practitioner. Constructive communication aids practitioners in refining their services and demonstrates your appreciation for their work. Whether your comments are positive or suggest areas for improvement, respectful feedback is crucial in building lasting professional relationships. Final Insights In the world of sensual massage and tantra, respect and professionalism are essential. By following these ten guidelines, you not only enhance your experience but also contribute positively to the community. Remember that a sincere commitment to both respect and professionalism can lead to more fulfilling interactions. Keep these tips in mind to ensure that your time in the sensual massage and tantra world is enriching and enjoyable. Aim to be the client with whom every practitioner is excited to work! Respectfully and with Love and Light, Goddess Maggie 💋 Angelhands4you.com
- Unleashing the Power of Love: My Journey with Goddess Maggie and the Alchemy of Pleasing Women
Have you ever felt the profound joy of truly pleasing your woman? I was once where you might be now, searching for a deeper connection and understanding of how to love and satisfy your partner. My journey led me to a transformative experience with Goddess Maggie, a beacon of light in the realm of energy alchemy and emotional intelligence. A Divine Encounter with Goddess Maggie It was a crisp autumn afternoon when I first met my spiritual teacher Goddess Maggie. Her presence exuded a sense of calm and wisdom that immediately drew me in. As we delved into heartfelt conversations about relationships, she introduced me to the concept of energy alchemy – the art of transmuting emotional energies into love and connection. Embracing the Alchemy of Pleasing Women Through Goddess Maggie's guidance, I learned that pleasing women goes beyond physical gestures; it involves understanding and honoring their emotional needs. She shared insights on the yoni, the sacred feminine gateway to a woman's soul, and how nurturing this space can deepen intimacy and trust in a relationship. Nurturing Emotional Intelligence One of the key lessons I gained from Goddess Maggie was the importance of emotional intelligence in fostering a harmonious connection. By attuning myself to my partner's emotional cues and responding with empathy and understanding, I discovered a newfound capacity for love and intimacy that transcended the physical realm. The Power of Love Unleashed As I immersed myself in the teachings of Goddess Maggie, I underwent a profound transformation in my approach to relationships. By integrating energy alchemy practices into my daily life, I found that I was not only pleasing my woman on a deeper level but also experiencing a more profound sense of fulfillment and joy in our union. Journey Towards Wholeness My journey with Goddess Maggie was not just about learning to please women; it was about embracing a holistic approach to love and relationships. Through her wisdom and guidance, I uncovered parts of myself that had long been dormant, allowing me to cultivate a more authentic and fulfilling connection with my partner. Embrace the Alchemy Within To all the men out there seeking to love their partners better, I urge you to explore the transformative power of energy alchemy with an open heart and mind. Allow yourself to be guided by the gentle wisdom of Goddess Maggie, and embark on a journey towards deeper intimacy, connection, and love. In conclusion, my odyssey with Goddess Maggie was a testament to the profound impact of energy alchemy and emotional intelligence in nurturing relationships. Through her guidance, I learned that true fulfillment lies not only in pleasing women but in embracing the alchemy of love that resides within each of us. Let us embark on this journey together, unraveling the mysteries of the heart and unleashing the boundless power of love. Being and learning from Goddess Maggie has helped me tremendously with not only in myself, but with my wife. May you find the courage to dive into the depths of your soul and emerge, radiant and whole. 🌟 With love and light, Bob from Virginia To schedule an appointment with Goddess Maggie, go to reservation page and fill out form.
- Why Respecting Personal and Political Beliefs is Crucial in the Healing Industry: A First-Person Perspective
In today’s rapidly changing world, creating a safe and respectful space is essential for everyone, no matter their personal or political beliefs. As a business owner in the healing industry, I have seen a noticeable increase in polarization, especially in the wake of recent elections. More often than not, I come across practitioners in the wellness sector openly expressing their disdain for clients based on voting choices. Some have even taken the troubling step of refusing service to individuals whose beliefs differ from their own. This behavior raises serious ethical issues for a service-focused business aimed at healing and wellness. It's disheartening to see hateful comments circulating on various platforms. These sentiments remind me of the core values that underpin my practice: everyone deserves safety in a healing space. It is crucial to cultivate an environment where all clients feel welcomed and respected, regardless of their political stance. Voting: An Inalienable Right Voting is an essential right that reflects our individual beliefs, values, and experiences. In a true democracy, each person's voice adds to the collective narrative. We cannot—and should not—try to change how others vote. In business, particularly within the healing sector, acknowledging that our differing beliefs enrich our community is vital. In my practice, I strive to create a welcoming environment for all clients, whether they are mature men, women, or couples seeking healing through modalities like tantra and bondassage. My role is not to judge someone based on their voting history; instead, I aim to provide a healing experience that nurtures the mind, body, and spirit. The Business of Healing - respecting personal and political beliefs is crucial in the healing industry. It’s crucial for practitioners to remember that service-oriented businesses exist to cater to diverse clients. As a business owner in healing, I can confirm that the primary goal is to provide quality service while fostering a culture of respect. Allowing political beliefs to dictate how we relate to clients is both unprofessional and inappropriate. In a practice dedicated to emotional and spiritual healing, harboring judgments based on a client's political beliefs undermines our essential purpose. Every day, we make choices about what foods to eat or whom we associate with. However, judging someone solely based on their voting choice is fundamentally flawed and goes against the heart of our mission. Creating Safe Spaces I am committed to being a safe person for my clients and to establishing a safe space for all. Clients often come to me during vulnerable moments, and their healing journey should not be complicated by the fear of judgment based on their beliefs. Everyone deserves the freedom to explore their needs without the specter of political scrutiny. Healing is about relieving stress, not creating it. My goal is to help clients connect with all aspects of themselves—mind, body, spirit, and soul—creating a harmonious experience. Respecting personal and political beliefs is crucial in the healing industry beauty of healing is that it can bridge gaps created by personal beliefs. Through shared experiences, we gain a deeper understanding of ourselves and others, regardless of the differences we may have. The Importance of Respect Respect forms the bedrock of successful healing relationships. I expect mutual respect from my clients before, during, and after each session. My commitment to my clients includes cultivating an atmosphere of openness and generosity. The healing process should be rooted in an understanding that every individual’s perspective carries weight, regardless of political affiliation. From my experience with mature individuals and couples, embracing our differences not only enhances the healing experience but also empowers clients to explore new therapeutic realms. When clients feel secure and respected, they are more open to transformative experiences. Bridging the Divide Navigating the landscape of personal and political beliefs demands a careful approach. It is essential to foster conversations with empathy rather than hostility. In my practice, I focus on bridging divides through understanding. Every client possesses a unique story that influences their beliefs, and recognizing this is fundamental for creating a healing environment. Acknowledging that people have varying perspectives allows for deeper connections. Such understanding helps break down barriers that may lead to feelings of isolation or discomfort. By actively listening to clients and valuing their viewpoints, we build a shared understanding that transcends political differences. Moving Forward Together The healing industry ought to be a sanctuary for everyone, regardless of political beliefs or personal choices. As we navigate a world often marked by division, it is more important than ever to promote respect and inclusivity in our practices. Safety is essential; it should extend beyond physical spaces to encompass emotional and spiritual well-being. My commitment remains firm: to foster an environment where everyone is invited to explore the transformative power of healing therapies like tantra and bondassage, free from judgment. Every appointment should be rooted in mutual respect, empathy, and healing energy. The journey becomes even richer when we recognize that our diverse perspectives are part of the shared human experience. So do not hesitate to reach out and schedule an appointment. Your journey toward joy, healing, and pleasure is waiting, and I promise to greet you with open arms and understanding. Interested in setting an appointment with me? If so, I kindly ask you to read more of my site to familiarize yourself with all of my offerings, and how I handle my business. Serious inquiries only. Must agree to go through a screening process and send deposits. Respectfully with Love and Light, Goddess Maggie 💋 ♥️ Angelhands4you Follow me on X
- End of Year Discounts and Essential Client Information
Introduction Overview of the end-of-year promotions for various sessions. Emphasis on the importance of screening and deposits for new clients. End of Year Discounts Fifty dollar discount on selected sessions. - Tantra Sessions : Enjoy a deeper connection and intimacy through this ancient practice. - Tease and Denial Sessions : Experience heightened sensations and anticipation. - Meet and Greet Sessions : A chance to connect and understand the offerings before committing. - Couples Sessions : Strengthen your bond and explore new dynamics together. Discover the transformative power of intimacy on your first session with $100 off on: - Tantra 6 hr Excursion - Bondassage 6 hr Excursion : Experience a unique fusion of touch and connection. - Elysium 6 hr Excursion : An extended experience to fully immerse in relaxation and pleasure. Importance of Client Verification Requirement of identity proof for all new clients. - Safety and Security : Protecting both the guide and clients for a comfortable experience. - Screening Process : Ensures mutual understanding and compatibility for sessions. Booking Process Deposits required for all bookings. Venmo, CashApp, and Credit card welcome. Credit cards incur a 3% processing fee. - Appointment Confirmation : Securing your time solidifies the commitment for both parties. - Cancellation Policies : Understanding the importance of respecting time and arrangements made. Encouragement for Serious Inquiries Call to action for potential clients. - In-depth Research : Visitors are encouraged to read through the site for better clarity. - Understanding Session Dynamics : Grasp the offerings to choose the best experience for individual needs. Conclusion Recap of the benefits of the end-of-year discounts. Reinforcement of the value in the screening and deposit processes. Final encouragement for interested individuals to explore and book sessions. Achievements Through This Post Enhanced awareness of available promotions for new and returning clients. Clarity and emphasis on the necessity of identity verification and deposits for safety. Improved understanding of the booking process and its benefits. Encouragement for potential clients to engage thoughtfully with the offerings. Love and Light, Goddess Maggie Angelhands4you
- Understanding the Needs and Preferences of Female Tantra Clientele in the Business World
In this weeks blog I wanted to focus on women. Female tantra clientele who come to see me I've experienced a couple different scenarios. First one being that they are more sincere in wanting help with their own lack of sexual desire, in wanting to understand and heal from traumas in their life. It is my belief that 100% of females have encountered sexual harassment in their life by the time they have reached their late 20's. Our situation is a catch 22. We want to look beautiful, not just for ourselves, but in the eyes of the opposite sex so we get out hair done, wear makeup, get manicures and pedicures, be physically active in some way for the health of our body. We do want both our insides and outsides taken care of. We do these things not just for ourselves, but for our partner, boyfriend or husband. But you see, when men come on to us based on our looks (because that is the very thing we all see), way to often it comes across as the man simply wanting us for our bodies and not our intellect. THAT gets old, real fast. No woman really wants that. When men continue to act in this way, they end up pushing the real women away. And so us women become even more frustrated because many of us do want a relationship where the male is going to treat us with honor and respect. It is not difficult to respect females. Be kind. Be courteous. Be nice. If you're going to compliment, compliment sincerely and genuinely without the smirks or eye widening. Females actually do pay attention to a man's tone of voice, what they say, how they say it, along with any type of body language. As I've said before, it's all about energy . Second scenario of why women come to see me is that it's not about trauma, but about experiencing another woman's sensual touch where she reaches orgasmic bliss. Men, there are women who are more open than you think about receiving sensual bliss by going to a practitioner such as myself. You need to actually ask her! Both sides staying quiet, not mentioning something one wants to do or is considering doing, is FEARFUL behavior . A lot of men tell me you don't have fear. Such a lie when you lack asking your wife or partner questions. It's called communication. If you are questioning/fearful of asking the woman you are with or are married to, questions, then simply put you are not ready for any type of real relationship, and/or you are with the wrong person. No one ever should be fearful about asking questions to the one one is in a relationship with. It is how you get to know someone and if that someone is an individual you want to spend more time with. Both men and women jump into 'relationships' haphazardly way to soon out of emotion. That simply is not a healthy way to go about it. Relationships require time. Jumping in and having sex is not a relationship. What that is is a continual hook up. It is always best to be honest with the other person with what YOU are looking for and what you are not looking for. If both people are on the same page, then go for it. Till next time!! '; ) Goddess Maggie
- Before The Beginning of Tantra Massage
Oh my gosh golly! The way I started in this field feels like forever ago. In Oct 2007, I was laid off of a very rewarding job where I was kinda like my own boss, but not. I started out subcontracting with a TV company who's focus was on marketing and selling exercise equipment through the avenue of infomercials. I was in charge of not only finding clients/customers, but also interviewing them for the possibility of being in this infomercial. I trained them, guided them in proper nutrition, was responsible for weigh-ins, measurements, scheduling photo shoots, etc. The whole kit and kaboodle. AND I LOVED IT. My first dream job. It lit a fire under me. When a potential client (or if you're already a client), know that when you come to see me, I have some knowledge about the human body to help you, should you ask a question regarding physical fitness and ways to eat healthier, taking better care of your body. Health is multi-faceted. The one most controlled way all of us can take better care of ourselves is through better eating. When I was school for Personal Training and Nutrition, I was shocked to find out just how unknowledgeable people were as to what they thought was healthy eating. I've come across numerous folks who were diagnosed with Type 2 Diabetes that thought a cobb salad was 'healthy' eating. Eh gad!! Hell no, a cobb salad is the lowest form of a 'salad' that has virtually nothing about it that would be considered healthy. First of all iceberg lettuce has zero nutritional value. At least it has zero calories and it's practically all water. At least it's something to chew versus bread and butter. Cobb salad also has lunch meat on it. Lunch meat is loaded with preservatives that has a lot of sodium. What's crazy, is that canned organic foods have more sodium than non-organic canned foods. Do pay attention to words I use in sentences. I did use the word 'canned'. Don't skim over the word canned and choose to see, read organic. Organic foods are still good for you. Just know that canned organic usually has more sodium than non-organic. Next time you go to the food store pick up a can of each of green beans, read the ingredient list and breakdown of calories, fat, protein, sodium, and carbs. You will see for yourself this truth I speak of. Go ahead and take a look at a variety of canned goods; both organic an non-organic. If you'd like to lower your sodium intake when eating canned goods, make sure to remove the water from it and rinse at least three times. This will also help remove some of the sodium. And by all means, DON'T add salt to those foods when it's already loaded. Instead use spices. There are no calories in spices. Only flavoring. Well, there you have it! Some basic info on sodium from what I learned before heading into the Tantra world of tantra massage. Love and Light, Goddess Maggie
- Best practices Donations/Fees
I take great pride in providing services with the highest quality & integrity. I’ve raised my prices only three times in the sixteen years I have been doing this work. From 2009 - 2018 prices were raised once. I started out at $150 hr in 2008. A client of mine suggested, (after I told him my concern for the lower type characters that were getting a hold of me), I should raise my donation to $200 for an hour. I took his advice and did receive better quality clients. Of course there were some emailing me, complaining that the higher rate was that of well you know, not anything I do! I even had an individual basically dictate to me that I have ZERO overhead. lol. Anything I purchase and the place where I was staying is indeed overhead!! He obviously knew nothing about business. Just because someone thinks something, doesn't mean it's true. I will continue to raise my fees as needed for as long as I am alive and am willing to stay in this line of work. I do so with the encouragement of clients who share that their transformations, as a result of our coaching sessions, (or any type of offering I have listed on this website) have priceless value. Best practices. I consider it a matter of both ethics and efficacy to only work with clients that I believe in and can come to care deeply for. I put my heart and soul into each session and I expect to be met with the same energy. The type of individuals I work with are gentlemen between the ages of 30 - 80. However I have found the age range between 40-70 are more in alignment of what works best for each other. With the ladies, I find that the age between 30 and 60 seem to be the better fit. With couples, I have found the best age range is between late thirties to mid sixties. This is a BIG investment of financial resources, time, and energy. I encourage you to do your research and decide what kind of experience matters most to you. When you reach out to me for a session of any kind, it's good that you explain yourself as to what you seek, and the why. Meaning the emotional reasons why you seek what you desire. Verbiage se*xual in nature is frowned upon. One-to-one sessions are where you can discuss personal matters in more detail. That keeps discussion confidently in a closed safe place. I do my very best to provide a safe space for everyone. Sometimes people forget that when you reach out, you need to think about how YOU are coming across. If you'd like me to have my space a safe one for you, you must speak to me in a respectful manner and tone. Acting childish as if you are entitled to what you want versus respecting me and my time, won't get you far. It may even get you blocked and reported on a National Blacklist forum. I admire each and every person who gathers the courage to schedule an appointment with me to seek support for themselves, their relationships, their families. Many thanks to those whose donation helps me to do the same. Till we meet!!! https://youtu.be/LPgqkN0_AME?si=jWJbpzJiWClxLFW- Love and Light, Goddess Maggie
- Unleash Your Inner Power: Mastering the Art of Balancing masculine vs feminine energy in Tantra
Welcome to a transformative journey where we delve into the depths of Tantra, exploring the intricate dance between masculine and feminine energies. Whether you're a single man, married man, single woman, or married woman, this guide is tailored to help you harness your inner power through the art of balancing energy dynamics in Tantra. Understanding Energy Dynamics in Tantra In the realm of Tantra, the concept of energy is central. It is believed that everything in the universe is composed of two fundamental energies: masculine (Shiva) and feminine (Shakti). Masculine energy is associated with strength, action, and consciousness, while feminine energy embodies creativity, intuition, and receptivity. The interplay of these energies forms the tapestry of life, and mastering their balance is the key to unlocking our full potential. The masculine vs feminine energy. Embracing the Difference Between Masculine and Feminine Energy The essence of Tantra lies in embracing the duality within ourselves. Masculine energy, often symbolized by the sun, is dynamic and assertive. It represents the driving force behind our actions and ambitions. On the other hand, feminine energy, likened to the moon, is fluid and nurturing. It encourages us to connect with our emotions and intuition. By recognizing and honoring these differences, we pave the way for a harmonious fusion of energies within. Balancing Masculine and Feminine Energy Achieving a harmonious balance between masculine and feminine energies is a transformative process. It entails cultivating self-awareness, introspection, and an openness to exploring our innate qualities. For men, embracing their feminine energy does not diminish their masculinity; rather, it enhances their emotional intelligence and empathy. Similarly, women tapping into their masculine energy find strength and assertiveness within themselves. The Alchemy of Tantra Practices Tantra offers a myriad of practices to facilitate the harmonization of masculine and feminine energies. From breathwork and meditation to sacred rituals and visualizations, each practice serves as a gateway to deeper self-discovery and energetic alignment. By integrating these practices into our daily lives, we awaken dormant potentials and unveil the true essence of our being. Embracing Your True Power As you embark on this journey of self-discovery and energy balance, remember that true power stems from authenticity. Embrace all facets of your being – the light and the shadow, the masculine and the feminine. By harmonizing these energies within yourself, you step into a realm of limitless possibilities, creativity, and profound connection with the universe. Join us in this exploration of Tantra as we delve into the mysteries of energy dynamics and awaken the dormant potentials within. Embrace the transformative power of balancing masculine and feminine energies, and unlock the true essence of your being. Let the alchemy of Tantra guide you on a path of self-discovery, empowerment, and profound connection with the universe.
- Choosing Coaching with me
When you make an appointment with me and have a specific purpose, please make sure to state this in comment section on contact form, or at the very least, in one of your first emails with me. Otherwise I will not know your intention for wanting to experience a Tantra session. Choosing Coaching with me. Depending u pon your reasoning will depend on how I will move forward with you. I get excited when I find out there is something specific you want to learn, gain, grow as a man, woman, partner, husband, wife ..... Human Being. Tantra Practitioners are counselors/guides/coaches/teachers. When I give suggestions on what to do or not do, it is so that you can choose to become better at whatever it is you want to become better at. Just like any professional who helps others gain more awareness of self, it can be frustrating at times when I find out you don't follow through with my suggestions. It's just like you going to a Personal Trainer that you pay and then don't listen to them when they teach you proper form or breathing. We are never to old to change our life for the better. The relationships we choose to have with others will either be built or torn down through communication. Sometimes we ask ourselves: " Is there anyone out there anymore that actually communicates honestly anymore without tearing down another human Being?" I know we are all guilty of that at times. As long as we recognize this in ourselves, that's the most important thing. And then do better to refrain/control our lips. No one is perfect so we shouldn't expect ourselves to be perfect either. We know our true intentions better than anyone else and we have the right to disassociate ourselves from people who no longer serve us in our growth as a human being. Some people are just to toxic, have to much chaos going on in their lives. We believe and hope that there is someone out there to help guide us in life. Thanks for reading! Till then........ Goddess Maggie
- Unveiling the Mysteries of Tantra: A Journey into My Tantra World
Welcome to my updated website! So much more I can do to give you a heightened experience. I wanted to briefly talk about Tantra. I know there are links to articles, videos, and books on this site that I do trust you will read and watch. I do my best to provide a variety of information about the Tantra world. It IS a big one!! One reason why so many books are out there. It truly is a broad subject, and is a deep type of living!! It isn’t just some modality you try. Tantra is way of Life. Weather we'd like to accept it or not. There are many fakes out there that want to stamp their work Tantra when they know absolutely nothing about it. There is so much to learn that it can take years for one to truly grasp the essence of this type of work. We can not know something without having a feeling to go along with it. When we feel, we begin to know. It's like any relationship. We can't know someone without spending time with them, and lots of time over a consistent basis, in many different types of experiences, situations, scenarios. It takes a good two years to figure out if the person we are seeing falls in alignment with our wishes, desires, values, morals. To find out about their character and if they have integrity. Never base a relationship on what you hear another person saying. Both words and actions must match. Tantra is the same because at the end of the day, Tantra is about getting to know more about yourself, the parts of you that you decided to keep hidden. Sometimes so deep you forgot what is there. The go go go go mentality is are own fault. The more you go go go, the more you fall behind in feeling the real you inside you. Focus sometimes lends itself to everything outside of ourselves that we don't bother to pay attention to the you in you. When we make the time (and yes make the time) to let go and fall into the arms of a practitioner such as myself, perhaps you'll rest your body and mind just enough to start feeling again! When you work on the relationship with yourself, it in turn creates a space for you to have better relationships with others. When two people who consistently do this for themselves and they meet another who also does the same, well, isn’t that wonderful?! Now, if the two of you are also doing the same with all parts of oneself, meaning your spiritual part, sensual part, mental part, emotional part, and physical part, well damn, now you really do have something deep going on. Are YOU there yet? Maybe. Maybe not. More often than not, we aren't. Because the thing is, most of us are too damn scared to look at ourself in the mirror to take full responsibility for our decisions in life. Let me tell ya something. For as long as I have been on this earth (and it's been over 50 years eeek 😦 ) I have always been incredibly spiritual and sensual. IT IS ME! I can not help it. And I love that about me. I truly do think it is a gift and I've never lost it, regardless of all the shit I've been through in this life. That's pretty cool! 😎 You would be surprised, even shocked, if you knew that I used to be incredibly shy as a child. So shy I would be frightened to raise my hand in school to go to the bathroom. Now that's bad. But inside that little girl, I KNEW the spirit and sensual part of me was there. Decades later in 2008 I started down this road of Tantra. There always seem to be this thing inside me that adores touching people's lives. To help transform people's lives in whatever way I felt led to do. I think some of the best things in life are subtle. Feeling life is subtle. It is so subtle we aren’t even aware that we're feeling it. It's so deep we know but we don’t know. I call that the sub-sub-conscious. Yes, I said sub subconscious. Think of it as nanotechnology. Your whole body and literally everything inside it is energy!! This can not be denied. You would not be living if it weren't so. Your heart would not beat. Every single organ, cell, atom, particle in your body is alive!! IT IS ALL ENERGY. Can you imagine, for even a minute, if you could (and you can btw) feel your liver working. Talk about being in touch with your body!!! That being said, when I do what I do when touching you, it is not just my hands touching you. IT IS ME TOUCHING YOU. As I mentioned earlier, I can not help who I am: spiritual and sensual. It exudes from every pore. Some people don't get it. They don't or can't comprehend that when I'm doing my work, it's not just me, some person who is providing you bodywork. I care more about people's souls than anything else in this entire world. If that is too much for you, well I can't help that. IT is what it is. I am serious and playful. Think first of me as a business woman. NOT a hot female that you can't wait for my hands to touch you. Grant it, that's a nice thought to have but it’s not the first thing you should be thinking of. It can be the second. ha ha I have had clients years later recognize the depth of what I offer. They have an a ha moment when they realize; 'whoa, that's what she was doing to me', 'that's what was going on'. A light bulb turns on. The sad thing is, at times there are those who choose to only see what I offer as a full body sensual massage. That is a choice they make. A choice they choose to want to only see me as. That is by far not what this or I am about. Goddess Maggie
- Why choose Goddess Maggie in Delaware ?
So you may ask yourself, why should I choose Maggie? Let me first explain that when you're in the decision process of who to go to for any form of bodywork, but even more specifically when choosing Tantric bodywork, it really is imperative you as a potential client follow the protocol each provider requires. I am no different. Coercion on your part to give what you deem necessary for screening purposes is disrespectful and our first sign that you're not able to honor the guidelines and protocols that are set in place for safety. Disappointing to say, that that has been true in some cases over the years. Proving one's identity has become standard policy for all Tantra Practitioners and others that work in the realm of sexuality/sensuality. Even more so since 2020. I have been in the Tantra field since late 2007 and in the health and wellness field for over 35 years. I know a thing (or two 😀) about the mind and body! I appreciate it when my clients, or new potential clients, appreciate me. Showing your appreciation can be seen in many forms. As a newbie, your appreciation comes across when you carefully and thoroughly read my website and follow what is needed in my screening process that's laid out on my FAQs page. It is important. It's best to supply what is needed in one email to avoid playing email tag. Why choose Goddess Maggie in Delaware When you reach out to schedule my first email to you will direct you to screening process. It is on FAQs page. It is important to read very carefully. Other forms of appreciation are tipping, small gifts such as flowers, candles, Gift Certificates, mixed nuts, high quality chocolates, etc. Also kind acts such as doing your best to show up on time to your appointments, calling when you know you're running behind or early, paying your deposits for sessions and paying in full of what's due when you cancel last minute or don't give the recommended time limit when cancelling or rescheduling. None of us wants to be ghosted. Don't do it here. Anyone who coerces, refuses to pay fees when canceling or no showing, or show outright disrespect, end up being reported, blocked, and Blacklisted. Ugh!! I don't like doing that. Nonetheless I will to help avoid other practitioners from being taken advantage of; financially or otherwise. Another form of showing appreciation is letting me know how it is I've helped you. What is it that you experienced in any of your sessions with me that got you thinking 🧐 more about your life? Your own sensuality and sexuality? Your relationship to self and others? Tantra really is deeper than we can fathom. Receiving loving, caring touch definitely helps us feel cared for and valued. When you enter my space, remember that this is my place of business. I run it. I have rules and guidelines in place that serve to protect me. They are also there for you. Because if they weren't there, chaos would ensue. All businesses have rules and guidelines in place to help avoid chaos. You wouldn't think to run the auto mechanic shop you take your vehicles too, now would you? I will put as much effort into your life when you put the effort into your own as well. Help me help you. What does that look like? I need to know the reason why you seek Tantra (or any one of my other offerings). If you don't inform me, how am I supposed to know? It's why that question is there on my reservation form. The more I know about you and what you're going through, what you need, what you're looking for, then I have a starting place on how to navigate your sessions. My Meyers Briggs Personality is INFJ-T. You'll see more of who I am and how I operate my own life if you so choose to read up on that personality trait. It's amazing just how accurate they can be. Nothing is 💯 % perfect. Not even a personality trait, but damn, it's real close. I will end with this. I respect and admire Rachel Richards, the milking table expert. Ive read many of her blogs. She's frank as I also can be. Perhaps if you've read this far, you should read some of her blogs. Love and Light, Goddess Maggie 🌹🌷🪻 LOL Can't help including this image!!